“We felt after your reaction to the wedding gift, it wasn’t right to go ahead and gift you the money.” The grandparents spoke.

“So, are you punishing me? Is this it? Because I was outraged about an air fryer.” Eloise pleaded.

“Eloise, it was not about the air fryer. The disrespectful way you spoke to us was the issue. Jen replied, “That is not something we expected or can support.”

“But that’s so unfair! I was stressed, Grandma. Planning a wedding is hard, and I just snapped. I didn’t mean any of it.” Eloise said, as she was in tears.

“We recognize that this is a tough moment, but actions and words have repercussions. We hoped you’d recognize the importance of family and love over financial possessions. Eloise spoke. “But you do not comprehend! Can’t we just ignore everything that happened? I need the money, Grandma.”

Then Eloise vowed not to attend Christmas, claiming that she was excluded. Jen stated, “We love you very much. This is not about cutting you off. We just hope you’ll think about this and understand why we made this decision.”

ANOTHER STORY FROM TIKTOK ABOUT A GRANDMOTHER WHO DOESN’T BRING GIFTS WHENEVER SHE WOULD VISIT

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