Friends Call It a “Nightmare”
The pushback unsettled Harry’s old crowd — most of them longtime friends from Eton, many with wives or girlfriends in tow. Some later described Meghan as a “dampener on the party.”
Bower wrote that, after the weekend, messages between the guests painted a clear picture: “She lacked any sense of humor… Driving home after Sunday lunch, the texts pinged between the cars. ‘OMG what about HER?’ said one; ‘Harry must be f*****g nuts’; and ‘She’s a total nightmare’ were others.”
Harry’s Gradual Distance from Old Friends
As Harry grew closer to Meghan, he began drifting away from the friends who had long defined his bachelor life. Royal biographer Angela Levin noted that one of those left behind was Tom Inskip, once one of Harry’s closest companions and a partner in many youthful escapades — including the infamous 2012 Las Vegas trip where Harry was photographed naked during a game of strip billiards.
“Harry was distancing himself from his old friends,” Levin explained, suggesting Meghan’s uneasy reception among them accelerated the shift. Some of his pals, she added, had been skeptical about the relationship from the very beginning.
Divided Values and Different Worlds
Other royal commentators echoed the same point. Author Tom Quinn recalled one of Harry’s friends telling Fox News: “‘I can’t understand what Harry sees in her. She’s a tree hugger. She’s so woke.’” But Quinn added that this was exactly what Harry found compelling. “I think Harry was, in a way, entranced by the fact that Markle was able to offer him an alternative world from the one he’d always known.”
Meghan, for her part, reportedly did not warm to Harry’s friends either. Quinn described another Sandringham shooting weekend where she grew uncomfortable with the humor. “She hated it because all of Harry’s friends were making the sorts of jokes that suggested they disliked everything to do with ‘woke.’ They just don’t like that kind of thing because, to a large extent, it’s seen as Left-wing.”
